Let’s catch up…
So it’s been a while. Do y’all know anything about this thing some people call life??? Well, let me tell you…it can swoop in and literally flip everything upside down. I feel like I’m constantly juggling. I think (maybe I’m wrong) that this is every woman’s experience…juggling obligations, jobs, tasks, finances, relationships, etc.
I juggle schedules for 4 kids…and trust me we do our best to keep it to a minimum. Little brothers have no real social life because big sisters keep us pretty busy (jobs, high school, marching band, drama practice, church obligations, volunteer work, etc.). Then I have a 40 hr a week job. There’s laundry, dishes, menu making, grocery buying, budgeting, bill paying, etc. There’s church, community, and family. I have to make a little time here or there for friends…whether it be a phone call or catching up over an appetizer. AND there’s my hubby…I HAVE TO MAKE TIME FOR HIM…it keeps our marriage chugging along. Sometimes this may be a 5 min conversation while he’s in the shower or on the toilet (don’t act like you don’t do it). Sometimes we may meet at Sam’s for lunch to walk up and down the aisles and just be together. And 1 to 2 times a year we try to get away for the weekend. Last summer, we spent our 10 year anniversary in Aruba (that’s another post for another time). This makes me head spin typing it out! Life has gotten the better of me, and time did not stop.
Some great advice a bestie gave me a long time ago…You’re not superwoman, so quit trying to be.
I say ALL OF THAT to say…life flipped us upside down and well blogging was not a priority. BUT I feel this deep, deep need inside of me to do this. So here we go.
What’s happened in the last 4 years….(cliff notes version)
-I’m still working my lemonade job (7 years this week)
-Hubs and I celebrated 10 years of marriage last year
-The children have aged (although I have not…)
-We gained 2 grandchildren…boys…and they are fun! (You are right…I am not old enough to be a grandma. That’s why I’m an Emee. Did I mention my hubs is a little bit older than me…thus my bonus daughters were born when I was in high school.)
-The oldest sister still at home graduated high school this past Friday! She’s off to university this fall. (I’ll be passing the offering plate at the end of this post.)
-WE ARE ADOPTING! In November I saw a FB post of 3 pre-teen girls from China that were available for adoption, and I knew WE had to do something because they age out at 14. Of course I’m full of ideas…hubs just usually ignores most of them…lol…it’s how we operate. BUT not this time…this time he jumped in quicker than me…ALL IN! So we began our adoption process of one of those little girls. We are about 2/3’s of the way through! We hope to travel this fall!
I’m sure you’re full of questions…so I will not leave this as a cliff hanger. I promise you’ll hear more from me more consistently!
I want to leave every momma a little something…time does march on…it stops for no one. SAVOR the moments that seem to make you want to scream. They will pass. You can’t screw your kids up if you love them more than life itself…even if you make a million mistakes. It all comes out in the wash. Ok…that’s a few little somethings. Life just isn’t that serious. I wish I would have laughed more in the last 18 years. Hugs!
P.S. I’ve added photos of graduation and our newest daughter!